3 Things Guys Actually Find ATTRACTIVE (VIDEO)
3 Things Guys Actually Find ATTRACTIVE (VIDEO)
Last week I talked with you about 3 Things Guys Secretly Find Unattractive. This week I’m sharing 3 Things Guys Actually Do Find Attractive.
Watch my short video below and let me know what other things you might think of in either of these categories. Would love too hear from you!
I decided to write about this topic because I see so much confusion about what really sparks attraction between two people. Gender roles have certainly evolved over the past few decades which is a truly wonderful and much needed shift, but now the delicate balance between the masculine and the feminine can be challenging to sort out.
Before I get into my list today, I do want to say it’s important for each couple to find their own balance of masculine and feminine in their love relationship or marriage. Talk about it with your partner. This may be a good place to begin a conversation, especially if someone feels things have shifted and attraction has lessened. What do you find attractive in a mate? What do they find attractive in you?
3 Things Guys Actually Find ATTRACTIVE:
Your feminine energy- watch the video above to get more details. Masculine energy is naturally attracted to feminine energy. When a woman brings a lot of masculine energy to the table in her personal life, it can be very off-putting to a masculine man. Warning - you as a woman can never out masculine a man. Don’t try it - it won’t work and you’ll be left wondering what happened to that spark you once had or maybe never had if you’re just beginning a possible relationship.
Your ability to share your feelings and emotions. Men are usually not good at this so they find it attractive when a woman can openly and appropriately express her feelings and emotions. Remember from last week - no drama queens required. He really does want to know how you feel about many things in life.
Your vibrancy. Yes, no matter your age, you need to find joy in living life and be able to be warm and loving towards other people, especially your mate or prospective mate. No one likes to be around negative sour people. Find your joy, and don’t over react to the small stuff. Most of our crazy making (fretting over problems, real or perceived) is really just a first world problem anyway.
Hint for those of you in a loving relationship or marriage: Always greet one another with a loving smile, a sweet kiss and warm embrace! You’ll be delighted with the results.
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Gayla
Gayla, aka the Denver Love Coach is a Love and Dating Coach for women, author speaker and creator of the It's All About You Love Coaching Program. She loves showing single women how to attract the love relationship of their dreams!