Would You Want to Meet You for a Date? (VIDEO)
Would You Want to Meet You for a Date? (VIDEO)
Here we are in the second week of the new year and I know most of us are hoping for a better year in general. If you wanted to find your love connection last year and it didn’t happen then let’s change that.
If you didn’t read my post last week or watch the video be sure to hop on over and do so! I talked about hope and how important it is to set an intention to hold onto HOPE. Now I want to give you a second super important tip.
This blog post is about what energy you are bringing to the table when you meet someone new. Think about people you love to be around. Why do they seem so easy to talk with and just be with? It has to do with their energetic vibe.
When I think about the women I know who have attracted the love they desire, they have a lot of things in common. I’m sharing a few of them in this video:
What energetic vibe do you have when you meet friends, family and someone new? It’s easy to be relaxed and warm when you are with people you know and like. What happens when you meet a potential date, mate or partner?
When I think about the women I’ve coached who now have happy love lives and/or marriages they all seem to have these things in common:
Gratitude: Live in gratitude for the love you do have in your life from your pets to friends and family. Relax into that feeling of love often - many times a day.
Open-heartedness: If your heart is guarded every time you meet someone new it shows in your body language, on your face and in the energy you are giving off. Are you truly open to love?
Facial expressions: Does your face say yes or no? Smile more, relax your body when meeting someone. Most people are really nice people. They want to meet you and get to know you. Is your body ready for battle before you even say the first words to a stranger? If so, it shows and will be read as disinterest, indifference or worse and that is not ATTRACTIVE.
Authenticity: This is such an important quality. I used it in the title of my book because I think most of us deeply desire an authentic love relationship that we can trust with our whole hearts. It is critical to be yourself when you meet a potential date. I know it’s scary sometimes, but be your self as much as possible. Then let him or her really get you know you.
Warmth: No one wants to meet another person who looks like they are unhappy, not open or lacks warmth. If your face does not look friendly or open then please tell it to get with the program and make sure it matches your true feelings. Do you have resting mad or sad face? Don’t know? Ask your friends or family.
Approachability. Are you approachable? Men don’t enjoy rejection and I’m sure you don’t either. If you want someone new to approach you and engage in a conversation possibly leading to a date then give them a tiny signal that you are friendly and approachable. No one is going risk rejection if you look like you might bite off their head for saying hello.
Be sure to watch the video above for more examples. Let me know what else you might like for me to cover this year, okay?
Remember: Be friendly, warm and watch your facial expressions. He doesn’t know you - yet.
P. S. Living in gratitude really makes smiling easy.
Love and hugs,
Gayla Wick, Denver Love Coach
Gayla, aka the Denver Love Coach is a Love and Dating Coach for women, author speaker and creator of the It's All About You Love Coaching Program. She loves showing single women how to attract the love relationship of their dreams!