Interrogating a Date - UNMATCHABLE Behaviors 101

Interrogating a Date - UNMATCHABLE Behaviors 101

Are you behaving more like an interrogator than the lovely, warm person you really are on a first date? I sure hope the answer is no, but if you think you may be doing this let me say, there is hope for you. I’m guessing this is not your intention, or at least I hope you did not intend to come off as an intimidating personality with someone you either just met or don’t know that well.

Take a few minutes to reflect on your previous early dates. Did you get a second date? How many first dates have you been on that did not lead to a second date? I do realize there are many reasons for first dates to end right there with no further contact, however this unmatchable behavior of assuming the role of an interrogator is a common contributor to this issue.

If you think you may be acting this way on your early dates, it’s time to make a change. No one wants to be drilled like they are being questioned for a job at NASA. It’s just a date. Yes, it is JUST a date - an opportunity to create interest. Are any of your behaviors throwing up a roadblock to your date wanting to learn more about you? Would you want to spend more time with you, if nothing changes in your first date behaviors? Do any of your first date behaviors put you in the UNMATCHABLE category?

Watch the video below to hear more about this particular unmatchable behavior and find out how the OPPOSITE behavior can spell the end of a second date as well. Let me know what you think. I’d love to hear your comments or questions.

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If you missed the first video in this new mini series - Unmatchable Behaviors 101 here it is once again:

Serenading a Date - UNMATCHABLE Behaviors 101

Don’t get unwittingly stuck in unmatchable behaviors that are keeping you single. Let me know if you would like to find out more about what may be going on in your dating life that keeps you single. Fill out this contact form for a complimentary consultation with me. If you want a love relationship I truly believe you can have the perfect match for you. Until next time, stay open-minded and believe in the possibilities!

 May All Your Love Relationship Dreams Come True,

 Gayla Wick, Denver Love Coach and Matchmaker