The REAL Reason Dating Isn't Working for You!
The REAL Reason Dating Isn't Working for You!
Everyday I see this at play in my sessions with single coaching clients, matchmaking clients and other hopeful singles looking for love, sometimes desperately. Yet, no one steps up to share the real reason why dating has not been working for their friend or family member. Today, I’m going to tell you the unvarnished truth.
Dating just isn’t resulting in the relationship you want, yet no one wants to tell you why because they either don’t know (which isn’t usually the case) or they don’t want to hurt your feelings by being honest with you. I get it - they know and love you so they overlook what’s really going on in favor of making you feel better and empathizing with your plight.
The problem with this well intentioned behavior on their part is that it’s keeping you right where you are - stuck in the same singles rut without the love relationship you want, desire and certainly deserve. I’m going to change this for you today and tell you the real reason, the top reason that dating is not working for you.
WHY? Why am I going to tell you when others won’t? Because you need to know in order to get unstuck and realize your dreams of having a love relationship AND I care about you. I have compassion for you! I care deeply that you get out of this unsuccessful pattern. You need romantic love - we all do. Well those of us who desire it for sure. Please don’t let anyone talk you out of what you want AND don’t listen to any more placating advice.
I invite you to watch this video from my heart to yours and think about it. Be brave and watch the entire video because I am going to tell you the REAL reason dating isn’t working for you and instead you are relegated to watching others find their love story. Yes, you can have your own love story too, but not until you decide to face what has been blocking your dating life.
Let me know what you think. I’d love to hear your comments or questions.
This situation is not uncorrectable. First recognize that you are the common denominator in the countless unsuccessful dating scenarios you’ve been experiencing. Attracting the wrong people? Not getting a yes to a second date with someone you think is promising? Not feeling confident and secure enough to say no when your gut is feeling something is off? This does not have to continue.
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If you want a love relationship I truly believe you can have the perfect match for you. Until next time, remember to be the loving person you want to attract into your life.
May All Your Love Relationship Dreams Come True,
Gayla Wick, Denver Love Coach and Matchmaker