What Is Your Internal Dialog On Love and Dating?
What Is Your Internal Dialog on Love and Dating?
What on earth am I talking about? Yes, we all have an internal dialog running in our heads all the time about everything. I’m sure you know what I am talking about, but what you may not be too sure of is just how this dialog is affecting your life for REAL or how to manage it to get what you want.
The incessant chatter in our brains is like the child in the playground running from one play structure to the other, not being able to calmly assess whether they want to try the swings or the climbing structure. I am a Certified Life Coach who specializes in Love Coaching so I’m going to talk specifically about the internal dialog that may be blocking your successful dating and or love relationship fulfillment.
You’re invited to watch the video below because this may be the real key to changing your dating and love relationship possibilities for good. In this video I explain more about internal dialog and tell you how to change what is clearly not working for you into a powerful force for you to attract what you truly want and desire for your romantic life.
Let me know what you think. I’d love to hear your comments or questions.
Yes, you can learn to manage your internal dialog. Many of the scripts you have running have just become habits. Habits, both good and bad be changed. The first step is to become aware of the dialog in your head and decide what impact it is having. If you think it is just in your head so nobody knows or it isn’t having a real effect because you don’t give voice to it - think again.
And no, you can’t use will power to tell this voice to simply shut up and/or go away. You probably know that too because you’ve tried it without success. Here are a few quotes I like - hope you read, internalize and enjoy!!!
“You can’t hammer yourself with hatred and build a life of happiness.”
― Curtis Tyrone Jones
“Every cell is eavesdropping on your internal dialog” - Deepak Chopra
Be mindful of your self-talk. It is a conversation with the Universe.” - David James Lees
What are you telling yourself every day, every waking moment about your love life - your chances of finding your own true love story with a happy ending? Your answer to this question and your willingness to make a shift, my friend, has the power to change everything.” - Gayla Wick
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Unproductive internal dialog does not have to continue. Let me know if you would like to find out more about what your internal dialog is doing and how you can shift it into a really powerful and effective force for you to get exactly what you want in your dating/love life. Fill out this contact form for a complimentary consultation with me.
If you want a love relationship I truly believe you can have the perfect match for you. Until next time, remember to be the loving person you want to attract into your life.
May All Your Love Relationship Dreams Come True,
Gayla Wick, Denver Love Coach and Matchmaker