Years ago a friend asked me this question over tea and bagels. When she suggested I stop talking about it and do something about my issue instead, it was hard to hear. What I wanted was commiseration, but what I really needed was a kickstart to make a needed change.
Read MoreWhat on earth am I talking about? Yes, we all have an internal dialog running in our heads all the time about everything. I’m sure you know what I am talking about, but what you may not be too sure of is just how this dialog is affecting your life for REAL or how to manage it to get what you want.
Read MoreEveryday I see this at play in my sessions with single coaching clients, matchmaking clients and other hopeful singles looking for love, sometimes desperately. Yet, no one steps up to share the real reason why dating has not been working for their friend or family member. Today, I’m going to tell you the unvarnished truth.
Read MoreShe was really looking forward to her date with the handsome stranger. He seemed to have so many of the qualities she’d been searching for. They both wanted a genuine loving relationship that would hopefully turn into marriage and a family. They shared a few common interests and certainly a long list of values too - on paper this looked like a promising start.
Read MoreWait a minute - a man not wanting to date a confident woman? This (hopefully) seems like the very opposite of what you’ve read or been told. To that I say yes…. and let me explain. What happens when confidence runs amok?
Read MoreYou might be thinking to yourself - why wouldn’t a man want to date a smart woman? Of course, enlightened healthy men want to date smart women. Desiring a love relationship that goes beyond a first date is all in the balance of that magical thing we call a love connection.
Read MoreAre you behaving more like an interrogator than the lovely, warm person you really are on a first date? I sure hope the answer is no, but if you think you may be doing this let me say, there is hope for you. I’m guessing this was not your intention, or at least I hope you did not intend to come off as an intimidating personality with someone you either just met or don’t know that well.
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