Why Would a Man Stop Dating a CONFIDENT Woman?
Why Would a Man Stop Dating a CONFIDENT Woman?
Wait a minute - a man not wanting to date a confident woman? This (hopefully) seems like the very opposite of what you’ve read or been told. To that I say yes…. and let me explain. What happens when confidence runs amok?
Think about people you enjoy being around, perhaps enjoying time together over a meal, drinks or any activity. Are they confident in themselves? Or do they exude the complete absence of confidence - that constant need to be reassured or they are so unassuming you feel more like a dentist doing an extraction to get them to participate in the conversation?
Confidence that is real, a genuine reflection of how a person carries themselves - feels about themselves in the world is ATTRACTIVE. Singles who are looking for love and those brave enough to seek out matchmaking services who understand the critical role self-confidence plays are much more likely to be successful in having that second date and beyond.
If you know someone who either lacks confidence or has gone overboard to the “dark side” with it watch this watch/share the video below to find out just what confidence run amok looks like. Hint: you already know someone like this and you probably don’t like being around them.
Let me know what you think. I’d love to hear your comments or questions.
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Don’t get unwittingly mired in believing that you need to be perfect to find love. Men are not the one-dimensional creatures we’ve been led to believe by fairy tales and crazy television shows and movies.
Physical beauty, intelligence and confidence are only a few of the qualities an enlightened, healthy man is looking for in a love relationship. Ideas of perfection are not what will attract and sustain a real authentic love story. Yes, he’s attracted to the beautiful, super smart and confident object of his desires in the initial moments, but mature, enlightened men want more, much more than beauty, intelligence and confidence.
A real man wants someone with whom to build a long lasting and life affirming love relationship - physically, intellectually, emotionally and spiritually.
You can read more about how these types of intimacy work together in my book, The Art of Attracting Authentic Love.
Let me know if you would like to find out more about what may be going on in your dating life that keeps you single. Fill out this contact form for a complimentary consultation with me.
If you want a love relationship I truly believe you can have the perfect match for you. Until next time, stay open-minded and believe in the possibilities!
May All Your Love Relationship Dreams Come True,
Gayla Wick, Denver Love Coach and Matchmaker